Thursday, March 29, 2012

Government Mandates: Let the Hunger Games Begin

 After my daughter, Kathleen read The Hunger Games trilogies, she enlightened me. She told me about the new movie "The Hunger Games" from which the books are based.  I only previewed the movie and thought it's not too far away from the future when you think about it. The government controlling our food source. Below is only a microscopic view of the workings of our government to undermine us. A bird's eye view.
"Farm and food...government, taxpayer's"..subsidies. Farm policies that increase commodity prices harm the lower-income families that food subsidy programs are supposed to help. For example, federal dairy policies raise the price of milk, which works against the goals of the school lunch and food stamp programs..."
http://www.downsizinggovernment.org/agriculture/food-subsidies    Government Subsidized Junk Food –
We are in the middle of national health crisis due to soaring obesity rates. Ironically, while Michelle Obama is campaigning to reduce childhood obesity, the U.S. government is subsidizing enormous amounts of junk food, much of which is consumed by our children.
A recent report by the U.S. Public Interest Group (U.S. PIRG) titled, 

"Apples to Twinkies: Comparing 
Federal Subsidies of Fresh Produce and Junk Food," found that between 1995 and 2010, the U.S. has spent more than $260 billion on agricultural subsidies.      
                 Of this total, nearly 
$17 billion was spent on four common food additives -- corn syrup, high fructose corn syrup, corn starch and soy oils; all known to contribute to weight gain.
                        In contrast, only 
$262 million was spent on apples, the only fruit or vegetable with any measurable subsidy.
The Twinkie comparison  comes into play as researchers found that of the               37 ingredients in a Twinkie, 
                 14 of them are made with federal subsidies. 
 U.S. PIRG says that 
taxpayer contributions made to these subsidies amounts to 19 Twinkies per taxpayer every year.
All of this is happening while one in five children ages 6-11 are currently obese and projections are that half of all Americans will be classified as obese by 2030 with many more diagnoses of diabetes between now and then. 
                Why Americans Can't Afford to Eat Healthy
These junk-food subsidies make it much cheaper to buy a burger, fries and soda from a fast-food restaurant than it is to buy grass-fed beef and veggies. It's not that these foods necessarily cost more to grow or produce but is that the prices for the junk foods are being artificially reduced by the government.
As David Sirota wrote on Salon.com:" … lawmakers whose campaigns are underwritten by agribusinesses have used billions of taxpayer dollars to subsidize those agribusinesses' specific commodities (corn, soybeans, wheat, etc.) that are the key ingredients of unhealthy food. .
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Thursday, March 22, 2012

Helping pay off the National Debt

So I am gathering all our tax forms for our tax
accountant because he wants
a copy of everything I am reporting as our
taxable income.
As I am copying off a 1099 INT form for him,
 I noticed at the
bottom of the form it says:
Taxable Interest Income  $0.02
I take out a red ink pen and draw a big
circle around it and underneath, I write:

Make sure the Government 
get this two cents.

Thursday, March 15, 2012

Passion and Divorce: To Be or Not To Be

I came across an online article written by a newly divorcee.Viewers on the site
did not have any sympathy for her because she said it was the "perfect"
marriage that she walked away
from after nine years.
Viewers discussed two issues: Passion and Divorce
Passion
After nine years of marriage, she decided to divorce her loving,
dependable, wonderful husband
because she was "not self-fulfilled," as she said; although, she
had a good job and a lovely home.
After she walked away from it all, she was very depressed.
She decide to start over again by going back to her hometown to
begin a new life. The other life that she thought she should have had.

I thought: If she had children, she would
have been too busy to worry about her so called 'empty life.' 
One viewer commented that he felt that
she did not have that intense, excited feeling for her husband,
called  passion, as she had everything else.

I replied to this viewer:  I agree with you that she
probably was missing the 'passion' in her relationship.
The one ingredient missing, in her so called "perfect marriage,"
although she did not say it or admit to it.

Passion, alone, doesn't work. Just look at Elisabeth Taylor and her 8 marriages.
Richard Burton and she had plenty of passion; so much so, that they married each other twice.
One viewer commented that she had a once passionate, first marriage, but he became an addict.
Her second marriage is much better, although, she is not passionately
in love with her husband. He makes her very happy.
Happiness trumps passion.

The extra ingredient of 'passion' in one's relationship
does make a big difference.
Passion in a relationship can
hold the relationship together long enough for all the other problems to
be ironed out; or until, they kill each other: a common News item.
Young women have asked me, "  I am getting older and
I want to marry soon. I love one
guy passionately, but he is not dependable. The other guy is very dependable and supportive;
he loves me and wants to get married. I love him, also; but not passionately.
What should I do?
I generally tell them to wait.
They don't have to make a decision when they are not sure.
The right guy, may, or may not come along some day; but when
he does, she should know; if only because she does not
know now. All marriages take work.  It is Rocket Science.

Divorce
The Divorcee became depressed because her new life of
being alone was not what she had
expected. She actually said that she
had wished her husband had left her; because, in this way,
she could blame him for her misery. The entire divorce
experience had taken a
toll on her spirit.
My advice before getting a divorce
Two things to Remember about Divorce:
   1) Being divorced can feel like a death in the Family.
   2) There will always be Problems in your life.
The Question is:  What problems can you live with
as you look at the Big Picture of Your Life.
   a) The problems you have Now in your marriage.
   b) The problems you will acquire After your divorce.

If you are madly in love with someone else; and thinking with your
'extended member' you haven't heard a word I said.


Years ago, when the subject of divorce came up in my marriage, I
felt my body aging 20 years by the minute as if the life was
being sucked out of me.
I wrote down all the Pros and Cons while looking at the
Big Picture of my entire life.
These are the problems I have now. If I get a divorce,
these are the problems I will acquire.
Having children is the Biggest Factor. I made choices
in my Past that I could not Just Dump now. I had remembered
reading,
“.."All the world's a stage,..all men and women.. merely players..one man in his time plays many parts.."
and I decided to play a different
role with each scenario I was given along the way;
so my family could be successful as a whole; it wasn't All about ME.
Lately, my family has repeatedly "thanked" me for being there for them.
In return, they have given me equal support.”

Is It Easier To Deal With Divorce When You Made The Choice To Leave?

Keeping Healthy

Laughter, happiness, optimism, stress, depression,
 sadness and pessimism are contributing factors
to your health by way of your brain.

My husband is reading a book,
" Invasion of the Prostate Snatchers: No More
Unnecessary Biopsies, Radical Treatment or
Loss of Sexual Potency by Mark Scholz M.D.
(Author), Ralph Blum (Author)

The book is mainly about preventing prostate surgery
 by regulating PSA readings through diet and stress,
 but the general information throughout the book is how
 to stay healthy enough to avoid all Cancer.

Some of the reviews of the book at Amazon, said to keep an
open mind and don't ignore the signs to have
surgery when you really need it.

As a woman, glancing through the last few chapters,
refreshing my memory on how to continue to stay healthy;
and remembering my husband's words to me years ago, 
"You have more balls than I have,"
I have, yet, to get prostate cancer.

Two stories that I read that jumped out at me:
     One man described in the book had a high 
PSA reading and was trying to avoid prostate surgery.
He became depressed with thoughts of dying and
of not wanting to live with the pain and stress.
When his young son came to his room and cuddled
with him, those feelings of having his young son with him
gave him back his desire to live, and his PSA
reading went down 50%.

    Years ago, I had heard that the brain effects the
well being of our entire body.  I heard about a man
in the hospital with a terminal illness.
He started watching comedy shows all day long.
He laughed every day, until he got better.

Remember that the closest and most available health
benefit you have, for keeping well, is laughter
and positive feelings; and that
the brain is leaked to your immune system.
When you are in good spirits, the brain conveys that to
your immune system that will fight off the disease in your body.
And Pray.
How Your Immune System Works..
"..When something dies, its immune system 
(along with everything else) shuts down.
 In a matter of hours, the body is invaded 
by all sorts of bacteria, microbes, parasites... 
None of these things are able to get in when
 your immune system is working, but the
 moment your immune system stops the 
door is wide open. Once you die it only
 takes a few weeks for these organisms 
to completely dismantle your body and 
carry it away, until all that's left is a 
skeleton. Obviously your immune 
system is doing something amazing
 to keep all of that dismantling from 
happening when you are alive..."

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

American Forces Archilles' Heel: PTSD

This killing started with the
'burning of the Koran' in Afghanistan 
by the American soldiers when they
discovered this Holy book
defaced by the
Muslim prisoners
who wrote in the
margins. Defacing, in itself is
an Islamic sin.
The Americans were
 afraid the prisoners were organizing and
hiding messages in the margin of these
books; so they
had them burned.
After years of fighting and living in a Muslim
country, you would think that our military
would know that burning 'anything'
that was considered 'holy' by the Muslims
would be a death
sentence.
We already know that the
Muslim extremists don't follow their
own laws; therefore, never mind the
defacing of holy scripture by Muslims;
kill the infidels who burned the defaced
books and let the American President
apologize, to emphasize just how
wrong we were.
This 'burning' of the Koran led
to the killing of American soldiers and diplomats
for revenge.
Who didn't see
this coming? Probably the person who
apologized.
Who didn't feel the tension between the
Afghanistan people
and the
Americans?
Not, the
American commander who warned his troops, after
the killing of Americans, to be "calm" amidst
the rioting against them by the Muslims.
What was the possibility of one
soldier having Post Traumatic Stress Disorder
(PTSD)? 
It only took
one, in the dead of night, who
strayed off base looking for a kill.
It has not been determined, if he had PTSD because
he walked back to the base and surrendered.
"What insane person would surrender?" I heard the news media
say. The prosecution will argue that he was sane enough
to surrender to his American unit; rather than, to extreme Muslims; therefore, sane enough when he killed.  He should be
executed.
The question should be? What sane person
would randomly kill innocent children,
women and men and then set them on fire?
This soldier had a previous record of head injuries acquired
while on duty in Iraq with
symptoms of PTSD, but it was ignored and he
was sent back to his third tour of duty.
How can the
United States government
continue to ignore soldiers with
PTSD signs when the final
outcome, when not treated, could
be death or International chaos.
The burning of the Koran exhibits
some levels of duress on our soldiers.
Who in their right mind would burn an Islamic
Holy book on Muslim soil among Muslims?


Medical science is not exact.
It is still full of
uncertainties and irregularities that
vary from patient to patient.

What is an 'exact' science:
Post Traumatic Stress Disorder; if not treated
completely and thoroughly, will create havoc by
putting a gun in the hands of a soldier and deploying
him repeatedly into a hostile environment.
I think it's called "Duh" science.  


"....The term "berserk" is an Old Norse
word describing the frenzied trance
in which some warriors fought.
The link between combat stress and outbursts 
of violence was well documented even before
troops began routinely serving three, four or
more combat deployments in Iraq and Afghanistan
over the past decade. But PTSD and violence
among veterans has become more prevalent.
 A study conducted at the
 Puget Sound Veterans Affairs hospital in Washington, for
instance, demonstrated high
levels of anger and hostility
among returning combat
veterans screening positive
for post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).
The soldier in the Afghanistan
shooting had been diagnosed
with traumatic brain injury in
2010 after a vehicle rollover in Iraq,
 CNN reported Monday night,
citing an unnamed U.S. official.
 A temporary finding of traumatic
brain injury is required by the U.S.
military after troops suffer any
 possible concussion from a blast
or other cause and does not
necessarily indicate significant
 brain injury, mental health
specialists said. CNN reported
 that the soldier was later cleared
 for return to duty.
According to a recent
U.S. Army study, about
 472,000 troops who served
 in Iraq or Afghanistan may
have some form of PTSD.